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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Facing the end of life...

Dr. Wayland Marks is the Medical Director for
 Medi Home Hospice Fredericksburg
This op-ed column for Viewpoints on end-of-life issues: Meeting the medical needs of frail, older people
 was published in the Fredericksburg Free Lance Star on 4/3/2011

This blog contains excerpts. The link to the full article will be posted at the end.




THERE IS a group of older individuals who have little or no formal recognition or representation. They do not sit in on focus groups, write letters to the editor or to their congressman, and usually do not vote. These are the frail elderly, usually over 80 years of age and many 90 and older.


In 1900, longevity was less than 50 years; when Social Security was instituted in 1934 death usually occurred by age 65. Now it is common for individuals in their 50s and 60s to be caretakers for their parents in their 80s or 90s. Society has never had such demographics. When the older patient becomes acutely ill, he is handled the way a much younger patient would be: sent to the emergency room, scanned, tested, admitted, and treated. Unfortunately, with incurable diseases, this scenario is often repeated many times prior to death.


If the older, frail patient survives the hospitalization, he is often weaker than before hospitalization and many require a nursing home transfer instead of returning home. Unfortunately, the nursing home is where many will die. Forty-two percent of individuals over 85 will die in a nursing home, 34 percent will die in a hospital, and only 18 percent will die at home, where virtually all would prefer to be.


Typically during these months, major decisions concerning medical care, financial matters, and residence are made, not by the patient, but by the adult son or daughter who understandably believes that more medical care must be better.


Dr. Marks poses a probing question:

  • Why do so many of these individuals receive care that may be harmful to them and care they would probably refuse if they were able to understand and participate in the decision process?

Lack of planning: 
We encourage people to prepare wills, undertake estate planning, consider life insurance and long-term care insurance, but when we advise planning for the possibility of severe disability near the end of life, we employ the term "death panels" and the discussion is usually neglected. Adult children often end up making decisions for their disabled parents without specific guidelines, usually opting for more medical care, sometimes to include tube feedings and intubation with mechanical ventilation of severely disabled older patients.

Misallocation of resources:
Medical care is reimbursed for utilization of medical services. When a patient is hospitalized, the system typically pays more for more consultations, more CT scans, more procedures, and more treatments. Our reimbursement system is similar to our asking the electrician to decide where to place all electrical outlets in a new house, and reimbursing him for each outlet. Medicare will pay for surgery for a seriously ill 90-year-old woman who may well die in a few months, but will allocate no resources to help a 90-year-old woman remain functional at home and avoid nursing-home care.

Unwarranted expectations:
Of the many chronic illnesses outlined above there are virtually none that are curable and, of course, the certainty of death is 100 percent. Most older patients are able to understand and appreciate the certainty of death, which is neither unnatural nor unexpected after an active 80 or 90 years of living. Replacing a desire for longer and longer life, there is more often an appreciation for quality of life, a focus on comfort and relief of pain and shortness of breath, and a desire to be at home with a loving family if at all possible.

There clearly needs to be an understanding that this unique group of individuals is different. For 80 or more years they have focused on the quality of their lives and, when approaching life's conclusion, most of them prefer the same focus. We must shift health care resources to meet their needs with less hospital care, fewer scans, tests, and procedures, and to put an emphasis on providing meaningful care in the patient's home setting if at all possible.



Wayland Marks is a geriatric physician and a Fellow of the American College of Physicians.

Link to full article:
Facing the End of Life






Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Medi Home Hospice Chaplain Rev. Jack Marcom discusses end of life issues...

SENIORS SEEK PEACE, STRUGGLE WITH FEARS 
IT WOULD BE GOOD TO KNOW, a column about end-of-life issues by Jack Marcom


This article appeared in the Free Lance Star on April 3, 2011. Rev. Marcom addresses issues that seniors face as they struggle to deal with aging and impending death. 



These are issues that we will all face one day. I have included excerpts below. At the bottom you will find a link to the full article on Fredericksburg.com.



I HAVE ENJOYED my life working and sharing with the elderly. I have gained a lot of of insight in my recent years as a hospice chaplain and
I have come to witness firsthand the struggles that seniors have. They share with me their fears that take up their thoughts during their waking hours.

In no particular order, the following fears eat at the very existence of their wellbeing:
  • Who is going to take care of me?
  • Who will pay for it all?
  • If I have to go into a nursing facility, will I lose everything I have?
  • If I am placed in a nursing facility and someone gets medical power of attorney, will I lose control, and have no say about my care? 
  •  Who will go through my things? 
  • How will I die?
  • Am I worthy of being received into the presence of my Supreme Being?
No one wants to suffer; we want to die in peace. This is what we hear all the time in hospice. I am often asked to pray with the patients about this issue as well. It causes our patients much stress, which exacerbates their illnesses. We cannot predict how someone may die, but we do try to make them as fearless about death as we can. 

Some patients have experienced the death of a family member or friend that was memorable to them. These deaths were uncomfortable to see, and they have not forgotten them. They can tell you every detail about this death and they do not want to die in that way.

We share a booklet with the patient and his or her family: "Gone From My Sight: The Dying Experience" by Barbara Karns. The booklet tells what may be expected, beginning three months out to the very moment of death. This is
a helpful tool for families preparing for a death.

All of these issues could be dealt with in a positive way if there were talks within our families about what our parents or grandparents want for their lives during a terminal illness. Using an instrument such as "Five Wishes" can be of great help. It is recognized as a legal document in Virginia and allows the person to make his or her wishes known in writing. The document deals in five areas:

1) The person I want to make care decisions for me when I can't

2) The kind of medical treatment I want and don't want

3) How comfortable I want to be

4) How I want people to treat me

5) What I want my loved ones to know.



Copies of "Five Wishes" may be obtained by calling Medi Home Health and Hospice at 540/361-7696.

Coming to life's end is a fearful and worrisome time. It can, however, be made less troublesome if family members will deal with dying in a realistic manner. Talk about it freely and openly: That will comfort the elderly person and his or her family.
Below is the link to the full article by Rev. Marcom.


We at Medi Home Hospice are committed to compassionate, caring physical, emotional and spiritual medical treatment. Our volunteers enhance our program to offer the patient companionship through friendly visits on a weekly basis.

If you live in the greater Fredericksburg, Virginia area and would like to know more about hospice volunteering please call the Volunteer Coordinator at:
            Medi Home Health and Hospice at 540/361-7696.