Medi Hospice Fredericksburg & Northern Virginia Blog is designed to educate and inform the public about hospice options and services. Our Hospice serves the many cities and counties within the State of Virginia.

This Blog is dedicated to our wonderful hospice volunteers who contribute countless hours for free to make a difference in the lives of terminally ill patients.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Letting Go...


Modern medicine is good at staving off death with aggressive interventions—and bad at knowing when to focus, instead, on improving the days that terminal patients have left.

Modern medicine is good at staving off death with aggressive interventions



The article 'LETTING GO 

What should medicine do when it can’t save your life?'    by  is a powerful search into the difference between aggressive treatment to extend life and the hospice philosophy of pursuing quality of life.

Below are some excerpts, but I encourage you to take a few moments and read the full article. Included are real stories of real patients and the difficult choices they made regarding their own life and death priorities.

The difference between standard medical care and hospice is not the difference between treating and doing nothing, she explained. The difference was in your priorities.

In ordinary medicine, the goal is to extend life. We’ll sacrifice the quality of your existence now—by performing surgery, providing chemotherapy, putting you in intensive care—for the chance of gaining time later. Hospice deploys nurses, doctors, and social workers and Volunteers to help people with a fatal illness have the fullest possible lives right now. That means focusing on objectives like freedom from pain and discomfort, or maintaining mental awareness for as long as possible, or getting out with family once in a while. Hospice and palliative-care specialists aren't much concerned about whether that makes people’s lives longer or shorter.

Hospice has tried to offer a new ideal for how we die. Although not everyone has embraced its rituals, those who have are helping to negotiate an ars moriendi for our age. But doing so represents a struggle—not only against suffering but also against the seemingly unstoppable momentum of medical treatment.

A study led by the Harvard researcher Nicholas Christakis asked the doctors of almost five hundred terminally ill patients to estimate how long they thought their patient would survive, and then followed the patients. Sixty-three per cent of doctors overestimated survival time. Just seventeen per cent underestimated it. The average estimate was five hundred and thirty per cent too high. And, the better the doctors knew their patients, the more likely they were to err.

Studies find that although doctors usually tell patients when a cancer is not curable, most are reluctant to give a specific prognosis, even when pressed. More than forty per cent of oncologists report offering treatments that they believe are unlikely to work. In an era in which the relationship between patient and doctor is increasingly miscast in retail terms—“the customer is always right”—doctors are especially hesitant to trample on a patient’s expectations. You worry far more about being overly pessimistic than you do about being overly optimistic. And talking about dying is enormously fraught.

Two-thirds of the terminal-cancer patients in the Coping with Cancer study reported having had no discussion with their doctors about their goals for end-of-life care, despite being, on average, just four months from death. But the third who did were far less likely to undergo cardiopulmonary resuscitation or be put on a ventilator or end up in an intensive-care unit. Two-thirds enrolled in hospice. These patients suffered less, were physically more capable, and were better able, for a longer period, to interact with others. Moreover, six months after the patients died their family members were much less likely to experience persistent major depression. In other words, people who had substantive discussions with their doctor about their end-of-life preferences were far more likely to die at peace and in control of their situation, and to spare their family anguish.

The simple view is that medicine exists to fight death and disease, and that is, of course, its most basic task. Death is the enemy. But the enemy has superior forces. Eventually, it wins. And, in a war that you cannot win, you don’t want a general who fights to the point of total annihilation. You don’t want Custer. You want Robert E. Lee, someone who knew how to fight for territory when he could and how to surrender when he couldn’t, someone who understood that the damage is greatest if all you do is fight to the bitter end.More often, these days, medicine seems to supply neither Custers nor Lees. We are increasingly the generals who march the soldiers onward, saying all the while, “You let me know when you want to stop.” All-out treatment, we tell the terminally ill, is a train you can get off at any time—just say when. But for most patients and their families this is asking too much. They remain riven by doubt and fear and desperation; some are deluded by a fantasy of what medical science can achieve. But our responsibility, in medicine, is to deal with human beings as they are. People die only once. They have no experience to draw upon. They need doctors and nurses who are willing to have the hard discussions and say what they have seen, who will help people prepare for what is to come—and to escape a warehoused oblivion that few really want. 

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Hospice is all about living. Medi Hospice offers superior, high quality, excellent care to our patients. Our volunteers are committed to planting seeds of love to make a difference in the world, one life at a time.

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Thursday, July 7, 2011

Social Networking - Engaging Volunteers

Online social networks connect people together; people with similar interests, people who know each other. Medi Home Hospice is beginning to experiment with these online networks as one way of finding a new generation of volunteers, as well as promoting and educating people on hospice.

Our goal is to determine if online activity and virtual communities can successfully inspire people to get active in the real world. There’s nothing to lose in joining these networks and it could turn out to be the best way to engage with a new generation of volunteers.

How does our new media sites differ from traditional media?

  • Users are not passively ‘consuming’ media. They are participating.
  • Social network users can create their own content.
  • We consider that our online users don’t want to be lectured to. They want to make conversations and join debate.
  • Most network users want to expand their contacts and “meet” new people.
  • Users tend to collect together into small special interest groups.

What do we do on our online networks?

  • Spread the message about the volunteering opportunities we have to offer.
  • Encourage our current volunteers to engage in online conversations with others about the volunteer work they do for our organization.
  • Give people the tools and information they need to get involved.
  • Share volunteering experiences and inspire others to do the same. 
  • Our networks can help us engage 'hard to reach' communities. 

We have a Facebook group titled "Hospice Volunteers of Fredericksburg". It is an open group dedicated to hospice volunteers. The group has events, links, videos and opportunities for open forum discussion. Click on the link to explore the group.


http://www.facebook.com/groups/hospice.volunteers.Fredericksburg




We have a Facebook page titled "Medi Hospice Volunteers". It is designed to optimize the presence of Medi Home Hospice and our volunteer program. Click on the link to explore the page.




If you are interested in becoming hospice volunteer, please call Medi Home Hospice Volunteer Department at 540-361-7696.