When a loved one passes away, we are faced with many painful decisions. Deciding what to do with clothing and other belongings they have left behind is one of them. Every item sparks a special memory you had with that person. It is a very personal and emotional sentiment.
The Medi Hospice volunteer departments in Fredericksburg and Charlottesville are very excited to have a new program for patients and their families. This program is designed to incorporate home based volunteers who sew and involve them in hospice through the creation of 'memory bears'. These precious bears will be made with loving care by these volunteers for families of those whose loved ones were cared for by our hospice program.
Memory Bears are teddy bears made from special articles of clothing,
uniforms, fur coats, blankets or other item that holds a special place in your heart.
It could be a loved one’s favorite sweatshirt, jeans and t-shirt, suit and tie, or a well loved house coat.
The Memory Bear is one way to keep the essence of their loved one close by, assisting them through their grief. While many people automatically realize how comforting these bears would be to grieving children, we also find that they are helpful to older adults who appreciate the memorial tribute and connection to their deceased family and spouses. Watch the video below to hear the testimony of a grieving woman and her memory bear.
Memory Bears and Quilts are comforting family keepsakes. It is a special way to cherish those you will never forget.
Each bear is unique because it is handcrafted from an article of clothing from the deceased patient that will be selected and given to us by a loved one.
Once arrangements are made to obtain materials the projects will be completed in the volunteer's own home. We will hand deliver completed bears to the grieving family.
“Memory Bears”
I know we still have memories,
Though I’m no longer here.
By sewing this material,
I become part of cheer.
Place me on your pillow,
Or set me on a shelf;
And when you feel discouraged
I will do my best to help.
When you see me, please remember
all the good times that we shared.
I’ve been sent here on a mission
Because I know you really cared.
Hug me, hold me, and love me,
Share with me your prayer.
Squeeze me oh so tight,
For I’m your ‘Memory Bear’.
Whether you've had a family connection to hospice care and want to give back, or are interested in learning more about how to support and comfort those in their final days, I encourage you to explore this truly rewarding volunteer opportunity. Medi Hospice has volunteer opportunities in your area.
If you can sew, knit or crochet and desire to offer your skill and contribute to comforting the grieving then you can be a hospice volunteer! Projects will be completed in your own home. We will deliver to you all the materials you need to create a lasting and beautiful memory bear.
Please call our Fredericksburg office and ask for the Volunteer Coordinator (540) 361-7696.
